World literature and cinema teach us that somewhere in the world there is our “half” and we are created for each other. But how to understand that it is he or she? What to focus on?
- You are not afraid to be vulnerable. You no longer need to hide, put on a mask, climb into the sink: a related soul takes you entirely, with all the advantages and disadvantages. So, you are not afraid to share something secret, tell about fears and doubts, admit mistakes. You know that you will not be convicted of what you say
, neither for how you do it (emotionally, expressively, excessively dramatizing), and you are sure that it is precisely the words that you need will be heard in response. This mutual openness becomes a strong foundation for relationships.
- There is «chemistry» between you at the physical level. You are unbearably attracted to each other, you are well together, any interactions (conversations, touch, hugs, sex) deliver pleasure.
- You feel calm. The thing is that the «family soul» gives a sense of safety. You know that you will not be rejected, they will not turn away from you, no matter what you do, and therefore finally find inner peace. You and your partner are a team, which means you will cope with all the hardships of your shoulder to the shoulder, overcome any disagreement and discrepancies in views.
- You can resolve conflicts. And they inevitably happen even between the closest people simply because we are different, we have different goals and desires. But you do not go down to screams and mutual accusations, listen carefully to each other, because it is really important for you what a loved one thinks.
- You just feel that this is the same person. «When you meet – you will understand» – this is the same case. You just draws to him either to her, and next to this person everything falls into place.
- You communicate without words. You begin the phrase, the partner finishes (or vice versa), you pick up the phone exactly when he or she calls … it would seem, just coincidences, but no: the clinical psychologist Carmen Harra believes that these situations are a sign of what is nearbyYou are the same person.
You coincide at the emotional, physical and spiritual levels. This does not mean that you do not have to work on a relationship: whatever the connection between you, it needs to be strengthened, Carmen Harra writes. You just know what you should (and you want) be together, no matter what happens. Obstacles and blows of fate not to crush your intimacy.